When Thankful Meets Thoughtful

Gary Burnison is CEO of Korn Ferry and the author of Love, Hope & Leadership: A Special Edition.

Life, as in leadership, is not linear. From joy to heartache and all the moments in between.

Through it all, the constant is people. There are those who lift us up and stretch us. And, when we need it most—they believe in us.

During this season of reflection and giving thanks, it’s probably more natural for people to contemplate what it means to be grateful.

And yet, if we think about it, there is also deeper meaning to explore.

First, there is thankful—a feeling of gratitude. Transcending any one culture, tradition, or philosophy, thankfulness runs through all.

Then there is thoughtful—an action. It is the essence of being kind toward others.

One a feeling, the other an action. And we need them both. Otherwise, how could our words ever become actualized?

When thankful meets thoughtful, we know what that looks and feels like.

Just imagine—walking into a large, open room. At the center there is a long table. Then, as the scene comes into focus, you’re surprised to see that, seated in each chair, are some of the most important people in your life, the ones who helped you, inspired you, changed you.

As you look from one person to the next, you see an empty chair. That chair is an invitation for each of us.

By following the example of those who have elevated us, we aspire to be that person for whom others are genuinely grateful. After all, this is the essence of leadership: inspiring others to believe and enabling that belief to become reality.

To all our colleagues, clients, friends, and those we meet along the way, I wish you an abundance of joy, happiness, and love. And to those of you in the US, a heartfelt Happy Thanksgiving.

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